You know how sometimes you start to feel a teeny tiny bit like you have some inkling of what you are doing some of the time? And then the parenting gods laugh in your face and smite your smile away and you are left to pick up the pieces of your broken schedule that is being stomped on by cranky tots?
No? Just me?
Anyways, that’s where I am now. After we recovered from jet lag from our recent trip Stateside, I thought things were back to business as usual. Then two things happened that rocked my little world.
First, Henry discovered that he can climb out of his crib. I know. Like you, I am also pretty shocked that it took him this long. He probably could have been doing this a year ago.
And I’m all, now what?? Do we accept that this is happening and put the toddler side on his crib? Move him to the bed? His climbing actually looks pretty safe so I’m not as worried about him hurting himself. I just need to figure out how to convince him to stay put during the night. And probably do a little more childproofing for when he doesn’t. I am definitely not used to having Henry pop up in unexpected places, and the sound of his bedroom door busting open is starting to haunt my dreams.
Second, Henry is trying to drop his nap. And my efforts at getting him to have “quiet time” on his own have been mixed. Not cool. I mean, I always knew this day would come, but I’m not ready. Some of it is for me. Without nap time, I may never get anything done ever again. But part of it is for him. He still seems pretty tired. So now I didn’t get a break, and I’m dealing with a crankypants kiddo. #winning
Needless to say, I’m feeling a little knocked off my game. It doesn’t help that I am still in vacation mode. Staying up too late. Extra glass of wine at night. Skimping on exercise. I know exactly what I need to do to feel better. I just haven’t gotten there yet. I’ll work on returning to reality after the holiday weekend. Probably. Definitely. Maybe.
Since I was a little out of it this morning, I decided a pick-me-up was in order.
For a shot of happy, I’d normally hit up a friend for cappuccino after dropping Henry at school, but people either have guests or are out of town or working or some such today. And I didn’t feel like chasing Mac around the cafe all by myself.
Mac and I stopped at the store. Instead of just the usual groceries, I added some heavy cream. And at the checkout, I picked up a four-pack of my favorite Kinder chocolate.
When we got home, I made some seriously weak coffee because we were all of out of decaf. Then I poured in a tad bit of heavy cream. And then Mac and I split the chocolate. (Mac had no complaints on this plan.)
Then Mac and I went to go play. Although I was late to the podcast party, I’ve been turning on podcasts in the background lately when Mac and I party down. I find that I can still read books and have dance parties and toss balls just fine, but it adds a little interest for me.
But today instead of a podcast, I decided to break out some bigger guns. I fired up Netflix and put on a comedy special in the background. (John Mulaney’s New in Town was the winner.)
Aside: for the moment, I listen to saltier materials when it is just me and Mac. I guess that will change soon when Mac masters “ball” and “mama” and then goes straight to F-bombs. Isn’t it funny how kids make you notice profanity? After watching Macklemore’s new video for Downtown, I showed it to Henry because I thought he would like the mopeds. I remember it being OK. It was NOT OK. I should have expected the language, but I somehow missed it. Parenting FAIL.
Aside Aside: How fabulous is Eric Nally in the Downtown video? He is my new fashion icon, and I am not kidding in the slightest.
And so it was that after a treat and some laughs, I left to pick up Henry with a smile on my face and enough energy to want to write a blog post.
As for Henry, we reached a tenuous compromise today. I told him that if he stayed in his crib–reading books or whatever–for an hour that he could get out and watch TV. There was some fighting when he wanted to go straight to TV, but eventually he caved. The hour alarm just went off, but guess who is fast asleep . . .
What is your go to cheap pick-me-up? Do you also love the video for Downtown? And any advice on this sleeping thing? How do you get your children to stay where you put them? Or is that just the most naive thing I’ve ever typed?